An appreciation of the noble pursuit of achieving precisely nothing.
There was a time when doing absolutely nothing was considered a perfectly respectable way to spend an afternoon.
One could sit in a comfortable chair, gaze out of the window, drink a cup of tea and contemplate absolutely nothing of consequence.
Nobody demanded an explanation. Nobody suggested downloading an app. And nobody appeared with a motivational podcast about maximising one’s potential.
Those were simpler times.
The Great Productivity Obsession
Somewhere along the way, society decided that every waking moment must be productive.
We must rise at five, meditate at six, exercise at seven, drink something green and thoroughly unpleasant at eight, and somehow build a business empire before lunchtime.
Even our leisure time has become suspiciously industrious.
We cannot simply take a walk. We must count the steps.
We cannot enjoy a book. We must complete a reading challenge.
And heaven forbid we sit down for half an hour without announcing that we’re practising mindfulness.
Apparently, doing nothing is only acceptable if we give it a fashionable name.
The Scunnered Lady’s Guide to Idleness
Here at the retreat, we believe that occasionally achieving absolutely nothing is an accomplishment in itself.
Grayson, our long-suffering house manager, disagrees. He maintains that there are always tasks requiring attention.
Naturally, we maintain that this is precisely why we employ Grayson.
For those wishing to rediscover the ancient art of idleness, we recommend the following:
Find somewhere comfortable. Preferably a chair with excellent cushions and no immediate view of the washing-up.
Put your telephone down. The world will continue turning without your supervision. Remarkable, but true.
Resist the urge to multitask. Drinking tea while staring into the distance is quite sufficient. There is no need to reorganise the kitchen cupboards simultaneously.
Allow yourself to be bored. Not every moment requires entertainment. Sometimes the most interesting thoughts arrive when we stop desperately searching for them.
Ignore the guilt. Rest is not a reward reserved exclusively for those who have completed every item on their to-do list.
A Little Science Behind the Laziness
There is, rather reassuringly, some genuine reasoning behind all this apparent indolence.
Research into rest and mind-wandering suggests that periods of undemanding activity can support creative thinking. Giving ourselves a break from constant tasks may also help us return to them feeling refreshed.
This does not mean that sitting in an armchair for six consecutive months will turn us into a genius.
Although we are perfectly willing to investigate.
The point is that our brains do not need to be occupied with demanding tasks every minute of the day.
Sometimes a little breathing space is exactly what we need.
The Final Word
Life is busy, frequently ridiculous and occasionally determined to test our patience.
There will always be another email, another household chore, another appointment and another person enthusiastically explaining how we could be using our time more efficiently.
Let them.
Make yourself a cup of tea. Find a comfortable chair. Watch the clouds drift past.
And if anyone asks what you’re doing, simply reply:
“Absolutely nothing. And I’m making excellent progress.”
With affection and a healthy disregard for unnecessary productivity,
The Scunnered Lady
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